He took the job. I don’t even feel that we’ve really discussed it. He didn’t really ask me, and I know we had a lot of other things going on this weekend, but really, calling and saying yes first thing Monday morning?

He had previously gotten an offer from another job in another state, but it wouldn’t start until January, so he had time to think about it.

He’s desperate. He wants a job. He thinks this would be a great opportunity.

Hello?! You never consulted me. We’re married, shouldn’t I be a part of the decision making process?

This new city is so far away. When he spoke of looking for jobs, I didn’t think he meant that far away. I wasn’t sure he’d get it.

They want him ASAP. I have barely processed this, there’s so much to be taken care of.