Okay, so it isn’t an age old question like "to be or not to be?"; but for me it’s causing just as many problems. I’ve been living in denial, pretending I don’t have to make a decision, just going along with what everyone wants. But that is making me crazy. I want to stay. I like being alone. Well, sometimes. Friends and family all think I should go, and I can’t expect anyone else to want me to stay….